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My Experience Trying a Clitoral Stimulator for the First Time

Ive always been interested in trying a clitoral stimulator, even before working as a copywriter in the sex industry. Ive seen them in sex shops and online, and Ive heard much about them from friends. Some of my friends have raved about the fact that their clitoral stimulators could induce stronger and more reliable orgasms than theyd ever experienced. I often struggle with vaginal orgasms through penetrative sex alone, so I figured its worth trying this new and nifty device. I was curious about what all the fuss was about. So, I decided to try one out for myself.

Experiencing a Clit Sucker for the First Time

When my first clit sucker first arrived, I couldnt wait to try it out. As I was reading the instructions carefully, I realized that I was already feeling turned on, so I didnt need much help in that department. I whipped out my favorite ethical porn site and erotica, ran myself a lovely bath, put on some scented candles, and set the mood. After all, if Im going to enjoy my sexuality, I want to be in the right mood.

As I sank into the lovely warm bath, I turned on the clitoral stimulator. My weapon of choice was the Namii clitoral suction vibrator by Biird, a cute silky smooth device that promised to stimulate the entire clitoral structure and not just the clitoral tip. For your information, the clitoris is a pretty large organ that extends pretty deep, but most people can only see the small clitoral tip at the top of the vaginal canal. The clitoris is the seat of pleasure in the female body, capable of delivering the most powerful orgasms.

Biird Namii Clit Sucker

The good thing with the Namii clitoral stimulator is that it's designed to stimulate the entire clitoris. I turned it on during my bath and ran it gently over all my erogenous zones, such as the feet, neck, thighs, and finally, my nether regions. And it felt amazing. It was like nothing Id ever experienced before. The sensations were intense, and it wasnt long before I was orgasming. But it was a different kind of orgasm to what Im used to — more intense and full-bodied.

I’m not quite sure how to explain the sensation. Have you ever rubbed yourself against a washing machine or stood against a powerful subwoofer? The bass from the subwoofer sends deep vibrations and sonic pulses into your vagina and triggers the clitoris, leading to a powerfully sensual feeling. The Namii clitoral sucker did something similar — it delivered powerful sonic pulses to vibrate my clitoral tip, and the sensation was intense and powerful. I would even say that was the most powerful and quick orgasm I’ve ever experienced!

Since then, Ive been using my clitoral stimulator regularly. Its become one of my favorite toys, and (though I'm a bit biased) I highly recommend it to anyone curious about trying one! Now that you know what the clitoral stimulator felt like, I want to help you achieve similarly powerful orgasms. Below, I describe the benefits of clitoral stimulation and offer valuable tips.

Benefits of Clitoral Stimulation

The clitoris is widely considered the seat of female pleasure. In fact, the clitoris is nicknamed the pleasure nub because it has the power to induce incredibly powerful orgasms. The clitoris is a small, pea-shaped organ located at the top of the two labia. On the outside, you can see the glans of the clitoris, usually covered by a clitoral hood, but the entire clitoris also runs deeper within the body. As such, most of the clitoris remains invisible.

The clitoris doesn’t serve any biological function other than pleasure. It’s a nerve-dense organ with thousands of nerve endings, a property that allows it to deliver powerful stimulation. Vaginal penetration can also help you achieve orgasms, but clitoral stimulation is usually more intense. In fact, most women experience reliable orgasms through clitoral stimulation and not vaginal penetration. That’s perhaps also why women in heterosexual partnerships are less likely to orgasm during sex than their male partners.

Since pleasure plays an important role in the procreation of the species, the clitoris can hardly be called an unimportant organ. Furthermore, since the clitoris is solely designed for pleasure, it represents the pinnacles of pleasure that the human body can offer. Clitoral stimulation through oral sex, masturbation, or clitoral stimulators is one of the best ways to orgasm regularly. In addition to offering instant gratification in the form of an orgasm, clitoral stimulation can also improve your self-esteem and confidence.

How to Stimulate the Clitoris?

To stimulate the clitoris, you need to learn to identify its location. The clitoris is the small glans located at the top of the vagina between the two ends of the labia. Masturbation is one of the easiest ways to stimulate the clitoris, especially since it allows you to take control of your sexuality. Instead of focusing on someone elses experience, you can take your time to find the clitoris, play with different types of strokes, and stimulate your clitoris to achieve an orgasm.

If youre looking to add some extra clitoral stimulation to your sex life, there are a few things you can try. You or your partner can use your fingers to stimulate the clitoris directly or indirectly. You can also try using a sex toy designed specifically for clitoral stimulation, such as a vibrator, a clitoral suction vibrator, or a pair of vibrating panties. If youre using a vibrator, start at a low setting and gradually increase the intensity as you get more aroused.

You can also set the mood to get you in the right frame of mind. Instead of focusing on the outcome or orgasm, engage in slow sex, enjoy the journey, and simply focus on the sensations produced by your body. Theres no right” way to stimulate the clitoris, so experiment and find what feels best for you. You may be surprised at how much pleasure the little button” can give!

About Author
Ellie Cooper
Ellie is a freelance writer and pleasure enthusiast. She is very comfortable talking about vaginas, scaling mountains and eating spicy food, but not parallel parking. She lives with a very tubby cat named Charles who likes to get involved with the writing process by sleeping on her keyboard.
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