You’ve purchased the perfect clit sucker online or from your local sex toy store. Now that you have it, you look at its silky silicone body and think about all the pleasures it will help you unlock.
But you’re hesitant — clit suckers are a new technology and you’ve never used it before. How do you use it? How can you incorporate it into playtime with your partner? In this article, we take you through a step-by-step overview of how to use clit suckers properly (with or without a partner) for the most intense orgasms of your life.
#1. Create a Sexy Atmosphere That Gets You in the Mood to Get Off
If you’re using the sex toy solo, take the time to set up a sexy atmosphere. Achieving the perfect orgasm is about your emotional and mental state just as much as your physical body. While the clit sucker can stimulate your physical body, you also need to stimulate your mind and soul, maybe then will you be able to climax in just as fast as 60 seconds.
That’s why it’s worth it to set the right mood. Maybe put on some sexy music. Maybe light some scented candles or try aromatherapy. Perhaps run a hot bubble bath with a fragrant bath bomb. Try getting your favorite alcohol and make yourself a cocktail. If you like watching porn while masturbating, put on your favorite videos. Do whatever you must to treat yourself, you could for example read this compilation of tips on how to orgasm fast with a clit sucker.
Once you’ve prepared your environment, settle down, let yourself relax, and retrieve your toy.
#2. If You’re Using It With a Partner, Enjoy Some Foreplay
Clit suckers and vibrators can also spice up your sex life. If you’re using it with a partner, enjoy some foreplay to further get yourself in the right mindset. The foreplay can be anything you like — conversations, make-out sessions on the bed, watching some hot videos together, sexy talk, or role-play. Do whatever makes you feel comfortable and excites your fantasies.
The foreplay can be anything you like — conversations, make-out sessions on the bed, watching some hot videos together, sexy talk, or role-play.
#3. Take Some Time to Discover Your Erogenous Zones
Whether you’re riding solo or with a partner, take some time to discover your erogenous zones. Even though clitoral vibrators are technically meant for your clitoris, they can also stimulate other non-genital parts of your body, such as your nipples, armpits, and inner thighs.
Think of it like receiving good oral sex. Do you like your partner to get right down to business, or do you prefer them to work their way down gradually? Similarly, work the clitoral sucker on different parts of your body. Some of the most common erogenous zones are armpits, neck, inner thighs, and feet. However, everyone has different erogenous zones, so find whatever works best for you.
Similarly, work the clitoral sucker on different parts of your body.
If you’re playing with a partner, you can also use the device for a little massage. Ask your partner to move the clitoral stimulator over your body, running the gentle suction down your back, calves, legs, and feet. Let it circle around pressure points on your body, relieving both mental and physical stress.
#4. Once You Find the Sweet Spot, Start Slow and Work Your Way Up
Once you’re done with the foreplay, you can use the clit sucker the way it’s meant to be used — as a clitoral stimulator. Start off with the lowest air pressure setting and hold the toy close to your clitoris. Clitoral suckers are supposed to provide indirect stimulation, i.e., you should hold the sucker a little distant from your clitoris. Adjust the distance and angle until you find one that works perfectly with your body.
#5. Play With Different Air Pressure Modes to Find Just the Right Suction Setting
Once you’ve found the right distance and angle, start increasing the air pressure. Most clit suckers come with several air pressure modes. As you adjust the suction setting, they produce different levels of sonic pulses that stimulate your clitoris. Move the air pressure up and down until you find the perfect air pressure. Listen to your body, follow its natural rhythms, and choose a setting that works best.
Move the air pressure up and down until you find the perfect air pressure.
#6. Experiment With Traditional Vibrations and Suction
Some of the most advanced sex toys, like Biird’s Namii, come with both vibration and suction features. You can use them for direct or indirect stimulation, so they work like traditional vibrators and clit suction vibrators. Alternate between the two settings to find the perfect rhythm. Most clit-owning individuals like to incorporate a bit of both to achieve the perfect orgasm.
#7. Slow Down or Stop if It Hurts or Feels Even Remotely Uncomfortable
When using clitoral sex toys, or any sex toys, you must listen to your body. If it feels even remotely uncomfortable, you should stop or adjust the toy. These products are meant to make you feel good. If they hurt or feel uncomfortable, slow down the pressure mode. If they still hurt, stop using them altogether. Listen to your body, and do what feels best, and use lubricant if needed.
Clitoral suckers are meant for indirect stimulation, so they don’t even touch your clitoris, and the risk of pain or discomfort is negligible. Furthermore, you should only purchase body-safe silicone clitoral toys to ensure there are no side effects. If anything feels wrong, slow down or stop immediately.
#8. Ride the Waves of Pleasure Until You Orgasm
Continue playing with the toy’s angles, pressure modes, and settings until you find the perfect rhythm. Once you’ve found the perfect setting, stay with it, and continue riding the waves of pleasure. Some users orgasm instantly, and some can last longer. Some also try edging, taking themselves to the edge of an orgasm, and then pulling back enough to delay gratification. Continue playing with the toy until you climax.
#9. Clean, Rinse, and Repeat
Once you’ve orgasmed, you can take a little break and go for another round or several rounds. Alternatively, you can clean the clitoral sucker with water, wash it with a soapy solution or water-based toy cleaner, gently dry it off with a soft cloth, and keep it aside… until next time.
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